Our family’s previous trip to Disneyland had been a little
disheartening for me, but this last trip was great! So, I really want to share what worked to
help our children on the Autism Spectrum feel comfortable and truly make the
most of our visit to Disneyland Resort.
I should mention that this trip was just as the resort was starting to
test out the new Disability Access Service, but had not started issuing the
cards that have the guest’s photograph.
In our situation, we had the old Guest Assistance Pass, but honestly we
didn’t use it that much. The biggest
reason we didn’t need the pass was because of the time of year that we
went. We went the second week of
September. For my children on the
Spectrum, it was the ideal time to attend Disneyland Resort. It was a time of much lower attendance rates,
and the lower “crowd pressure” made a huge difference. The other reason we didn’t use the pass as
much was because our children were older, and understood the concept of taking
turns and waiting in line better.
One memorable time that we did use the pass was on the
Matterhorn. We really appreciated the
way the Cast Members handled our needs.
They gave us a return time, and when we did return we were asked to wait
for a few minutes in the alternate entrance.
I don’t like the idea of just walking up to an attraction with my pass
and then walking straight onto a ride, bypassing all of the other guests that
have been waiting in line, and I don’t want to teach my children that they are
somehow too special to wait their turn.
The way it was handled made it so that waiting our turn was a bearable
experience, and I appreciated the thought that has gone into the new
system.
Another thing that made our trip so fantastic was
consciously paying attention to our boys' concerns. Our older son has a really excellent memory,
so even though it had been 2 years since our last visit, he was still reluctant
to enter buildings. The first building I
took him into was a restaurant at a slow time of the day. As we first walked through the doors, he
stopped and said “whoa.” I immediately
stopped and talked to him about what we were doing and what he could expect
when we entered the next set of doors. I
was also able to promise the reward of milk, which may be what actually got him
in the building. However, when he was
able to see that what I had described was real, and the interior of the building
was non-threatening, he was able to relax about entering other buildings
throughout the resort. He was even able
to ride “Soarin’ over California” a couple of times. That was huge step for him, compared to our last trip and the rewards of the ride made it worth riding again.
Our younger son, is very adventurous, but didn’t like to ride
by himself. We learned this by riding
the Matterhorn, where he had to sit in a seat by himself. He wasn’t fond of that, and we didn’t make
him do it again. I have learned my
lesson, and did my best to not push my children into too many stressful
situations. If there was something that
was upsetting to them, i.e. sitting by himself, being in the dark, we didn’t
repeat that even on another attraction.
When we did encounter a stressful situation, we would counteract that by
spending some time doing something that was familiar and comforting. For my boys it was riding their favorite
rides, usually multiple times in a row.
That brings me to “Favorite Rides”. “Gadget’s Go Coaster” is featured on a video
game we have and both boys were excited to ride it as their first rollercoaster. That excitement turned into a bit of an
obsession. I lost track of the number of
times we rode, but it was at least 15.
The movement was something that was really comforting to my boys. We found that their favorite rides tended to
involve deep, strong movements. Things
that spin in a circle were a huge hit: Astro Orbiter, Dumbo the Flying
Elephant, both carousels, and the Mad Tea Party. Strong movements especially in an outdoor
setting were also very well received: Gadget’s Go Coaster, Goofy’s Sky School,
Mater’s Junkyard Jamboree, the zip line at Redwood Creek Challenge Trail and
the Jumping Jellyfish. We discovered our
younger son really likes being high up in the air, because he insisted on
riding Mickey’s Fun Wheel. I was nervous, but we all went and both boys enjoyed
the ride. Like I mentioned earlier, my
younger son is adventurous and his complete favorite ride was Buzz Lightyear
Astro Blasters, probably because he was controlling the movement of the ride vehicle.
Which brings me to Autopia; what child doesn’t love to drive their own
car? Mine are no exception. Our older son really surprised us with his
love for Soarin’ Over California, there was a building that we had to walk
into, there was a line that we had to wait in, and then we went up in the air;
all stressful things. He loved it. We didn’t get to ride it as much as he
wanted, mostly because his brother was too short to ride, and Aaron got tired
of us leaving him with the Grandparents.
There were plenty more attractions that we enjoyed, the above were the
SUPER favorites, the ones we had to ride more than once or twice. (Can I mention here how much we loved going in
early September?)
Since I had our previous trip on my mind, we had only
purchased three day passes for my husband and older son, while our younger son
and I had 4 day passes. I expected Ian
and Dad would need some time off. I was
wrong. Fortunately, they were able to go
to the ticket booth with their three day passes and extend them to include a
fourth day. They had to be present for
the cast member to be able to do that; I couldn’t go and extend the passes for
them. So keep that in mind if you decide to try that out for yourself.
We still had a couple of trouble spots, neither boy could
stand the idea of watching World of Color, and we left early from that. Also,
our younger son’s obsession with the color green became a problem when we
couldn’t ride in the green tea cup. As a
result of his temper tantrum, we exited the Mad Tea Party attraction without
riding. We went and had some lunch, rode
the Mark Twain Riverboat, which has a calming effect on my boys, and discussed
his behavior before we went on any more of his favorite attractions. I had broken one of my rules and had let the
little one get overly stimulated and hungry.
Since it only happened the one time, I still feel very successful.
Like the title says, this was our best trip yet!